Preschool Prerequisites

Sooooo......T has started pre, pre K. He likes it (now) and I do, too. I have questions though. He is 3 1/2. He is a boy. He is adorable. He is a genius. He is creative. He is very handsome. He is well behaved and pretty much perfect in every way. Sorry-got a little bit carried away. :)

What should I expect in preschool? Do they want too much? Do I want too much? 

School (private preK)
letters and sounds
preprimer sight words
patterns
counting to 30
writing letters
creative play
fine and gross motor development
recess
games

Me (mommy and teacher)
letters to mastery
sounds 
counting 
fine motor and gross motor
painting (everyday!)
play centers
playdough
cutting
recess
social development
games

I'm please with what T's school offers. If not, he wouldn't be there. However, I can't help but wonder, what else should be on my list? What else should be on their list?